This article will discuss the best kinky ideas for your boyfriend’s birthday. With these ideas, you can come up with a complete kinky party for his birthday.
There are lots of possibilities of experimentation for your boyfriend’s birthday to make the party even kinkier.
1. Buy some sexy toys
Whether your boyfriend likes to use toys on himself or whether he would like to use a toy on you, a new toy can always add some spice to a birthday party.
You can surprise him beforehand with them already bought or you can take your partner to a sex store let him buy some different toys for his birthday.
While you’re on the topic, is there anything else he would want from the sex shop?
2. Dressing Up

Dressing up in sexy lingerie is a way to turn up the heat in a night with your boyfriend. Pick out a black lace bra, a satin push-up bra, black lace lingerie, and pantyhose.
Of course, this depends on your boyfriend’s preference and style. This is something new and adventurous for your boyfriend and you are both definitely ready for it.
It will be a sexy surprise and his kinkiest birthday surprise ever.
3. Teasing session
A long teasing session to see how far you can go in your exploration of his fantasies.
Take turns telling each other about the sexual desires and fantasies that you are each exploring. Try to do it while enjoying yourself.
If this happens to be your first time exploring his fantasies or desires you may want to try other seductive poses and hand motions while telling your partner about it.
4. Have some deep kissing/handjob/spanking playtime
You will want to do your best to increase his enjoyment with something that is natural for him like handjobs, kissing, and spanking.
The point is to simply spend time together exploring each others’ bodies in a kinky, fun, and safe way.
5. Join an online sex community
An online sex community can have lots of information and communities focused on the interests you share.
Find a play party with other couples, friends, or people in your town. Even if it is something kinky but a party that has other couples would be great.
Find a play date for your couple friends, your boyfriend’s male friends, or you and your girlfriends.
6. Send him or her photos

Take pictures of yourself in the weeks beforehand and unleash your inner pornstar.
Send him a photo of yourself naked, sensual, and from different angles. You can even take a picture of yourself tied up, you want to let him know that his kinkiness is arousing you.
Buy your boyfriend something that will remind him of you. Take photos of you wearing the gift.
7. French maid
If you have a boyfriend, and you live together, a sexy birthday gift idea would be to dress yourself up like a french maid.
Dye your hair, paint your nails, and wear lingerie that’s too small.
Get a sparkly French maid’s outfit and wear high heels so that you can be on all fours while he fucks you. It will give him a great thrill.
8. Go to a Sauna
Take him to a sauna where all the other men are naked and sweaty and there’s lots of touching and grabbing of body parts.
On his birthday, you can take him to a sauna and strap him into a bench so that he’s totally exposed and he can be forced to touch himself while strangers come up to him, touch him and chat with him.
Just make sure you take lots of pictures!
9. Read erotica in bed, together
Talk about kinky and you’ve hit the nail on the head.
You can pick up a few books from the nearest bookshop, order online, or try a fun game at home
Or, if your boyfriend is brave enough to try some new things, give it a go together.
There’s no way he’ll be as excited as you!

Just go with it. You’re in a relationship, have some fun with it! Do some role play—doctor and patient, student and teacher, masseuse and client… there are many ideas that you can get into.
As a great birthday present for your boyfriend, you can go all out and get kinky with it.
Maybe you can dress up as a teacher or a teacher, or you could get a fantasy about someone being there.
11. Take a shower together
This is a good option if you want to make sure there’s no chance of you getting extra dirty in the process.
Maybe combine this with eating chocolate, strawberries, or some type of food off each other. That way if you make a mess, into the shower you go!
12. Tie him to the bed
You might need some help to carry out this option. But there’s no question you’ll both love it.
Get a piece of rope or handkerchief and tie him up and tell him sexy things. Make sure to caress his body, his dick and tease him until he is just itching to grab you.
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